In my last blog I mentioned how single women can create a single energy around them that can keep Mr right away. In this blog I would like to concentrate on the practical ways in which we can eliminate that single energy while living a life with purpose.
1) Get rid of male bashing single women in your inner circle of friends. I am not suggesting you break the friendship but when their attitude is leaking into your thought pattern you can easily believe that ‘all men are dogs.’
2) Get involved with social activities. For example join a social professional network which has social gatherings. Ensure it caters to a diverse group other than just women.
3) Tell close friends that you are looking to settle down. A Recommendation is a very good way to meet that special someone.
4) Travel and see the world. This is a good way to refresh your perception on love, life, men and everything in-between.
5) Please! please! please! Minimise all the single functions you attend unless there is a good mix of male and female attendees.
6)Not every single man you meet stands as a potential husband. Some are just meant to stay as friends.
7) Let a man be a man. By this, I mean any man who you share company with. Make sure you allow the man to open the doors for you and show some chivalry. It is so easy for us to block a man from being a gentleman. Oftentimes men want the opportunity to do it but we are so quick to do things ourselves.
8) Ask God to heal you from past broken relationships this could be from a ex-lover, Father or any male figure who has let you down.
9) Clean-up your house. Some women who have been single for a little while have the habit of hording things. If you have clutter everywhere in your house, it will also mean you have a lot of clutter in your mind too. Ensure you de-clutter your house at least 3 times a year. Make room for that man.
The Miss Education of the Single Woman
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